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Grief is love that outlived its address. You're allowed to build it a house — no permit required.
The back of The long love — with the code that opens this room
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REMEMBER · XIII

Lesson 39 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — The long love

Grief is love that outlived its address. You're allowed to build it a house — no permit required.

REMEMBER — The communion — names, tables, ancestors, the long love

…people sat with this card this month
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The practice

give the love one small address this week: a shelf, a frame, a bench at dusk. Visit it on purpose once. Love with a home wanders less at night.

Where this idea comes from

  • Home altar, ofrenda, and memorial practices across traditions; continuing bonds

More in this deck

TEND · XIII  ·  GROUND · XIII  ·  FEEL · XIII

This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.

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