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TEND · XI
Lesson 50 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — Celebration allowed
You're allowed to let the milestone matter, and to let people make a thing of it. Being celebrated is not a jinx.
TEND — Scaffolding, boundaries, and the people who hold you
…people sat with this card this month
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The practice
tell one safe person the number — days, weeks, months, whatever it is. Let them react fully. Don't manage it down. Receiving it is part of the practice.
More in this deck
This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.
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