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When someone asks what you need and the mind goes blank, 'sit with me' and 'distract me' are both real answers.
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TEND · IV

Lesson 43 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — The two answers

When someone asks what you need and the mind goes blank, 'sit with me' and 'distract me' are both real answers.

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The practice

memorize the two scripts today: 'Sit with me.' 'Distract me.' Next time someone asks and the mind blanks, deploy one. Watch a helpless helper become useful in five words.

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