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An invitation: write to them, or to what you lost. Keep it, or burn it — fire has always been one way to send things on.
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REMEMBER · IV

Lesson 30 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — The letter

An invitation: write to them, or to what you lost. Keep it, or burn it — fire has always been one way to send things on.

REMEMBER — The communion — names, tables, ancestors, the long love

people sat with this card this month

The practice

write a note today — three sentences minimum, about anything. Then choose its road: the drawer that keeps, or the flame that carries. Either way, it arrives.

Where this idea comes from

  • James Pennebaker — expressive writing
  • Chinese joss-paper offerings; memorial fire rites across traditions

More in this deck

TEND · IV  ·  GROUND · IV  ·  FEEL · IV

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