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REMEMBER · III
Lesson 29 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — The complicated blessing
If it was complicated, the grief is allowed to be complicated. Blessings and wounds can come from the same hands.
REMEMBER — The communion — names, tables, ancestors, the long love
…people sat with this card this month
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The practice
name both on paper: what was — as it actually went — and what never got to be. Mourn the second one on purpose. Nobody sends flowers for it, but the old laments always made room.
Where this idea comes from
- Kenneth Doka — disenfranchised grief
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