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HELD · SOUL · every card is a room
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REMEMBER · II
Lesson 28 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — The telling
An invitation: tell one story out loud — to a person, a pet, an empty room. Telling is how the beloved stay in the world.
REMEMBER — The communion — names, tables, ancestors, the long love
…people sat with this card this month
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The practice
tell one story today, start to finish. Notice it get slightly smoother, slightly more yours, in the telling. Every wake, every shiva, every funeral lunch runs on this engine. It works at your table too.
Where this idea comes from
- Eulogy, wake, and testimony traditions; Robert Neimeyer — meaning reconstruction
More in this deck
This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.
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