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If the heaviness stays very heavy for very long, reaching for help is a strong move. A counselor, a group, a chaplain — whoever holds your kind of trouble.
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TEND · VII

Lesson 46 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — Guides have guides

If the heaviness stays very heavy for very long, reaching for help is a strong move. A counselor, a group, a chaplain — whoever holds your kind of trouble.

TEND — The practices — sabbath, service, blessing, hope, vigil

…people sat with this card this month
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The practice

run the honest check: has the weight moved at all in recent months, even slightly? If genuinely no, take one step this week — one call, one group, one ask for a name. Even guides have guides.

Where this idea comes from

  • Prolonged grief research; chaplaincy and spiritual care professions

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GROUND · VII  ·  FEEL · VII  ·  REMEMBER · VII

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