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'We split up' is a complete sentence. You don't owe anyone the story — not the neighbors, not the holiday table.
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FEEL · VII

Lesson 20 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — Selective disclosure

'We split up' is a complete sentence. You don't owe anyone the story — not the neighbors, not the holiday table.

FEEL — Permission for every feeling the ending brings

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The practice

sort your people into two lists: truth-people and everyone else. Today, give one truth-person the real answer and everyone else the short one — deliberately, without guilt. Curiosity is not a subpoena.

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REMEMBER · VII  ·  TEND · VII  ·  GROUND · VII

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