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FEEL · VIII
Lesson 21 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — The restoration orientation
Some days may be unexpectedly okay. You're allowed to take them — and to enjoy what's yours now. Neither is disloyalty.
FEEL — Permission for every feeling the ending brings
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The practice
next okay day, do not audit it. Say once — 'this is a rest stop, and rest stops are part of the road' — then spend it fully. If the whole bed or the quiet kitchen pleases you, let it.
Where this idea comes from
- Margaret Stroebe and Henk Schut — dual process model
More in this deck
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