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TEND · VIII
Lesson 47 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — The social ledger
Friends may sort themselves unevenly, and some may go quiet. Who keeps you is not a referendum on your worth.
TEND — Support, boundaries, and the rebuild
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The practice
name two people who are unambiguously yours and water those two this week — one call, one plan made. The rest of the ledger can settle without your supervision.
Where this idea comes from
- Network change after divorce — Terhell et al., 2004
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