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HELD · for the end of a marriage · every card is a room
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TEND · IX
Lesson 48 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — Co-regulation
If there's a person you never have to perform for, you're allowed to lean there without apology.
TEND — Support, boundaries, and the rebuild
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The practice
name your safe person — actually say the name. Then lean this week, on purpose: one unperformed conversation about how it actually is. The leaning needs somewhere to go now. If no name comes, finding one is this card's assignment.
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