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Lesson 49 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — Warmth as regulation
An invitation: reach for warmth — tea, a blanket, bathwater, sunlight. Comfort is a tool right now, not a luxury.
TEND — Support, boundaries, and the rebuild
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The practice
build the comfort kit tonight: the blanket, the mug, the playlist, the hoodie — one basket, one known location. When the cold hours come, deploy without deliberation. Comfort pre-staged is comfort used.
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