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TEND · XI
Lesson 50 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — The timeline question
'Are you getting back out there?' answers to you alone. Soon is allowed. Years is allowed. Not deciding is allowed. All of it is recovery.
TEND — Support, boundaries, and the rebuild
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The practice
prepare the sentence for the next asker, calm: 'I'll know when I know.' Deploy it, change the subject. Your timeline requires no defense and accepts no editors.
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This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.
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