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REMEMBER · XI
Lesson 37 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — Story ownership
You're allowed to tell the story of your own marriage — with you as a person, not a cautionary tale. Your version needs no sign-off.
REMEMBER — The marriage, the story, the years — held honestly
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The practice
tell one chapter out loud this week to someone who won't cross-examine — how you met, or how it ended. Your telling. Notice the story get slightly more yours as you tell it.
Where this idea comes from
- Robert Neimeyer — meaning reconstruction
More in this deck
This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.
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