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Grief is often love that outlived its address. The reflex to tell them things is the bond's old habit, still walking its route.
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REMEMBER · XII

Lesson 38 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — Attachment persistence

Grief is often love that outlived its address. The reflex to tell them things is the bond's old habit, still walking its route.

REMEMBER — The marriage, the story, the years — held honestly

…people sat with this card this month
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The practice

start a note called 'things I would have told you.' When the reflex fires, write the line there instead. The habit gets a mailbox. You get to keep the moment.

More in this deck

TEND · XII  ·  GROUND · XII  ·  FEEL · XII

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