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You're allowed to grieve the future you'd already furnished — alongside whatever the past really was.
The back of The imagined years — with the code that opens this room
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REMEMBER · XIII

Lesson 39 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — The imagined years

You're allowed to grieve the future you'd already furnished — alongside whatever the past really was.

REMEMBER — The marriage, the story, the years — held honestly

…people sat with this card this month
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The practice

name one specific imagined future, aloud or on paper: 'We were going to...' — and let the sentence finish. Let it count. The plans were real, even though the future wasn't.

Where this idea comes from

  • Nonfinite loss — Elizabeth Bruce and Cynthia Schultz

More in this deck

TEND · XIII  ·  GROUND · XIII  ·  FEEL · XIII

This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.

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