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Whatever showed up with this card is allowed to be here. Grief for someone who hurt you. Love for someone you left. Nothing at all.
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FEEL · XIII

Lesson 26 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — Radical validation

Whatever showed up with this card is allowed to be here. Grief for someone who hurt you. Love for someone you left. Nothing at all.

FEEL — Permission for every feeling the ending brings

…people sat with this card this month
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The practice

name the feeling in the plainest word you have, out loud or on paper, and add: 'and that's allowed.' Once. No editing.

More in this deck

REMEMBER · XIII  ·  TEND · XIII  ·  GROUND · XIII

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