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GROUND · XIII
Lesson 13 of LII · the GROUND course
The idea behind this card — The dismantling labor
You're grieving a life while filing the paperwork of its dismantling. That double shift is real. No wonder you're tired.
GROUND — The body and the immediate day
…people sat with this card this month
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The practice
split the shifts: one timed hour as the administrator, then clock out, out loud. The griever doesn't file forms. The administrator doesn't have to feel. They take turns.
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