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HELD · for the end of a marriage · every card is a room
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TEND · I
Lesson 40 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — The minimal viable ask
An invitation: text one person the words 'today is hard.' No explanation required.
TEND — Support, boundaries, and the rebuild
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The practice
send it now, before the reasons arrive: pick your person, type 'Today is hard,' press send. No context, no essay. Their reply is not the point. The flare is the point.
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