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GROUND · X
Lesson 10 of LII · the GROUND course
The idea behind this card — STUG
A wave may hit at the song, the envelope, them across a parking lot. You can plant your feet and name five things you can see. Waves pass.
GROUND — The body and the immediate day
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The practice
learn the drill calm: feet flat, five things you can see, four you can hear, three you can touch. Rehearse it once now, so it's ready when the water rises. And pre-decide what an accidental sighting gets: a nod, an exit, nothing owed.
Where this idea comes from
- Sudden temporary upsurges of grief — Therese Rando
More in this deck
This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.
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