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An invitation: do one small thing for tomorrow's you — coffee set up, clothes out, the hard hour pre-softened.
The back of Prospective self-care — with the code that opens this room
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TEND · VI

Lesson 45 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — Prospective self-care

An invitation: do one small thing for tomorrow's you — coffee set up, clothes out, the hard hour pre-softened.

TEND — Support, boundaries, and the rebuild

…people sat with this card this month
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The practice

before bed, leave tomorrow-you three gifts: clothes out, phone charging, one note that names the first task. Ninety seconds tonight buys a survivable morning. Sign the note if you're feeling generous.

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GROUND · VI  ·  FEEL · VI  ·  REMEMBER · VI

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