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TEND · V
Lesson 44 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — Digital stimulus control
You're allowed to mute or unfollow what burns — their feed, the couple accounts. Protecting a raw place is not pettiness — it's pacing.
TEND — Support, boundaries, and the rebuild
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The practice
do the ten-minute audit: mute their feed, their family's if needed, the couple accounts that burn. Note the date — every setting reverses whenever you say. This is curation, not exile.
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