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TEND · IV
Lesson 43 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — Support matching
When someone asks what you need and the mind goes blank, 'sit with me' and 'distract me' are both real answers.
TEND — Support, boundaries, and the rebuild
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The practice
memorize the two scripts today: 'Sit with me.' 'Distract me.' Next time someone asks what you need and the mind blanks, deploy one. Watch a helpless helper become useful in five words.
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