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An invitation: ten minutes of writing about the ending — what happened, what it meant, what it costs. Keep it, burn it, or drawer it.
The back of Expressive writing — with the code that opens this room
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REMEMBER · IV

Lesson 30 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — Expressive writing

An invitation: ten minutes of writing about the ending — what happened, what it meant, what it costs. Keep it, burn it, or drawer it.

REMEMBER — The marriage, the story, the years — held honestly

…people sat with this card this month
…

The practice

set a timer for ten minutes and write about the ending without stopping — messy, unfair, unsendable. Three days in a row if you can. The page does the sorting.

Where this idea comes from

  • James Pennebaker — expressive writing

More in this deck

TEND · IV  ·  GROUND · IV  ·  FEEL · IV

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