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The quiet evening can hold two different things: loneliness, which is weather, and solitude, which is a skill. You're allowed to be learning the second inside the first.
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FEEL · IV

Lesson 17 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — Loneliness and solitude

The quiet evening can hold two different things: loneliness, which is weather, and solitude, which is a skill. You're allowed to be learning the second inside the first.

FEEL — Permission for every feeling the ending brings

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The practice

tonight, give the empty hour one deliberate solitary pleasure — the meal you like that they didn't, the show, the long bath. Loneliness may attend. Let it sit in the second chair, not the first.

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