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You can love someone and be done. You can be furious, heartbroken, and relieved in the same hour. The grief holds all of it.
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FEEL · III

Lesson 16 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — Ambivalent grief

You can love someone and be done. You can be furious, heartbroken, and relieved in the same hour. The grief holds all of it.

FEEL — Permission for every feeling the ending brings

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The practice

complete the sentences that apply, privately: 'I miss...' 'I'm still angry about...' 'I'm relieved that...' Don't reconcile them. Read them side by side and let every true one stay true.

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