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There is no correct way to do this. Crying it out and reorganizing the garage are both grieving.
The back of Grieving styles — with the code that opens this room
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FEEL · II

Lesson 15 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — Grieving styles

There is no correct way to do this. Crying it out and reorganizing the garage are both grieving.

FEEL — Permission for every feeling the ending brings

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The practice

name your style without judgment: do you process by feeling and talking, or by doing and thinking? Then do one thing today in your own style — the cry, or the spreadsheet. Both count.

Where this idea comes from

  • Kenneth Doka and Terry Martin — grieving styles

More in this deck

REMEMBER · II  ·  TEND · II  ·  GROUND · II

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