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TEND · III
Lesson 42 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — Energy budgeting
You're allowed to skip the wedding, leave the party early, or not go at all. Your energy is yours to spend now.
TEND — Support, boundaries, and the rebuild
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The practice
decline one thing this week using the full sentence with no clause after it: 'I can't make it.' Practice the period. The ending is reason enough, and reasons are not owed.
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This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.
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