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REMEMBER · XII
Lesson 38 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — The name you answer to
What you call yourself is yours to choose. In some rooms one word helps; in others, another. The name answers to you, and it's allowed to change.
REMEMBER — The honest archive — the years, the people, the person underneath
…people sat with this card this month
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The practice
try the sentence both ways today — the word you've been using, and 'a person who...' Keep whichever stands you up straighter. Re-decide whenever you like.
Where this idea comes from
- Narrative identity — Dan McAdams
More in this deck
This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.
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