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The lost years will not always feel this big — not because they shrink, but because life grows around them.
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FEEL · XII

Lesson 25 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — Growing around grief

The lost years will not always feel this big — not because they shrink, but because life grows around them.

FEEL — The feelings coming back online

…people sat with this card this month
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The practice

draw it: one circle for what the using years took, sized honestly. Now draw this year around it — every person, plan, and repaired morning added since. Same circle. Bigger page.

Where this idea comes from

  • Lois Tonkin — growing around grief

More in this deck

REMEMBER · XII  ·  TEND · XII  ·  GROUND · XII

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