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Remembering the harm done is part of an honest archive. Remembering is not the same as re-sentencing yourself every day.
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REMEMBER · VII

Lesson 33 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — The honest ledger

Remembering the harm done is part of an honest archive. Remembering is not the same as re-sentencing yourself every day.

REMEMBER — The honest archive — the years, the people, the person underneath

…people sat with this card this month
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The practice

when the harm-reel starts, say the whole sentence: 'I remember it. I'm changing it. The changing is today's entry.' Repair is allowed to wait until you're steady enough to mean it.

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TEND · VII  ·  GROUND · VII  ·  FEEL · VII

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