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REMEMBER · VIII
Lesson 34 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — Sober firsts
The first wedding, the first funeral, the first Friday night — every first is an anniversary in disguise. You're allowed to plan them like appointments.
REMEMBER — The honest archive — the years, the people, the person underneath
…people sat with this card this month
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The practice
before the next first, decide three things: the exit plan, the glass in your hand, the person on call. Write them down. An ambush converted to an appointment loses most of its teeth.
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This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.
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