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TEND · VIII
Lesson 47 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — Energy budgeting
You're allowed to leave early, skip it entirely, or never explain. Your energy is spoken for right now.
TEND — Scaffolding, boundaries, and the people who hold you
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The practice
decline one thing this week with the full sentence and no clause after it: 'I can't make it.' Practice the period. Recovery is the reason, and it doesn't require a permission slip.
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