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'No thanks, I'm good' is a complete sentence. You owe no one the story — not of the using, not of the stopping.
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FEEL · VII

Lesson 20 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — Selective disclosure

'No thanks, I'm good' is a complete sentence. You owe no one the story — not of the using, not of the stopping.

FEEL — The feelings coming back online

…people sat with this card this month
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The practice

prepare the short answer now, calm, so the moment doesn't have to draft one: 'No thanks, I'm good.' Then sort your people: truth-people get the real story, everyone else gets the sentence. Curiosity is not a subpoena.

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REMEMBER · VII  ·  TEND · VII  ·  GROUND · VII

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