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You're allowed to make the hard dates holy days — or ordinary ones. The calendar answers to you now.
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REMEMBER · IX

Lesson 35 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — Holy days

You're allowed to make the hard dates holy days — or ordinary ones. The calendar answers to you now.

REMEMBER — The communion — names, tables, ancestors, the long love

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The practice

open the calendar. Find the next loaded date. Decide now — ritual, ordinary day, or escape — and write it in. Death-days have been kept on purpose for a very long time: an ambush converted to an observance loses most of its teeth.

Where this idea comes from

  • Yahrzeit, death anniversaries, All Souls — memorial calendar traditions

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TEND · IX  ·  GROUND · IX  ·  FEEL · IX

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