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If there's a person you never have to perform for, you're allowed to lean there. Witnessed weight weighs less — people have known it for centuries.
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TEND · IX

Lesson 48 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — The witness

If there's a person you never have to perform for, you're allowed to lean there. Witnessed weight weighs less — people have known it for centuries.

TEND — The practices — sabbath, service, blessing, hope, vigil

people sat with this card this month

The practice

name your person — actually say the name. Then lean this week, on purpose: one unperformed conversation about how it actually is. If no name comes, finding one is this card's assignment.

Where this idea comes from

  • Confession and witness traditions; co-regulation

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GROUND · IX  ·  FEEL · IX  ·  REMEMBER · IX

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