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You're allowed to flinch at other people's intact lives — the couple, the family, the ones still here. The flinch is human. The oldest stories are full of it.
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FEEL · IX

Lesson 22 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — The flinch

You're allowed to flinch at other people's intact lives — the couple, the family, the ones still here. The flinch is human. The oldest stories are full of it.

FEEL — The honest heart before the mystery — lament, doubt, awe, mercy

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The practice

when the flinch comes, don't convict yourself. Name it plainly — 'that's the wanting' — and let it pass through. Envy at a loss this size is just love, reading the inventory.

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REMEMBER · IX  ·  TEND · IX  ·  GROUND · IX

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