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You're allowed to miss it. It was your coping partner before it was your captor. Missing it doesn't mean going back.
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FEEL · II

Lesson 15 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — Grieving the substance

You're allowed to miss it. It was your coping partner before it was your captor. Missing it doesn't mean going back.

FEEL — The feelings coming back online

people sat with this card this month

The practice

on a steady day, write it a short goodbye note — what it took, what it once gave, and why you're leaving. Three sentences is plenty. End on the leaving. Keep it, burn it, or drawer it.

Where this idea comes from

  • Goodbye letter — relapse prevention practice

More in this deck

REMEMBER · II  ·  TEND · II  ·  GROUND · II

This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.

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