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TEND · II
Lesson 41 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — The support gap
You're allowed to let people help badly. 'You're so strong' may land wrong; the care inside it usually isn't.
TEND — Scaffolding, boundaries, and the people who hold you
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The practice
next clumsy comfort — the watched glass, the proud speech, the too-careful cheer — run the split: intention, usually an A. Execution, often a D. Thank them for the A. Keep the person, compost the words.
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