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An invitation: text someone who gets it the words 'today is hard.' They won't need the backstory.
The back of The in-group ask — with the code that opens this room
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TEND · I

Lesson 40 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — The in-group ask

An invitation: text someone who gets it the words 'today is hard.' They won't need the backstory.

TEND — Scaffolding, boundaries, and the people who hold you

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The practice

send it now, before the reasons arrive: pick the person who's stood in this same evening, type 'Today is hard,' press send. No context, no essay. The flare is the point.

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GROUND · I  ·  FEEL · I  ·  REMEMBER · I

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