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Missing it, relieved it's over, grieving what it took — all can share the same breath. Recovery holds all of it without contradiction.
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FEEL · III

Lesson 16 of LII · the FEEL course
The idea behind this card — Ambivalent grief

Missing it, relieved it's over, grieving what it took — all can share the same breath. Recovery holds all of it without contradiction.

FEEL — The feelings coming back online

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The practice

complete the sentences that apply, privately: 'I miss...' 'I'm relieved that...' 'I'm never going back to...' Don't reconcile them. Read them side by side and let every true one stay true.

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REMEMBER · III  ·  TEND · III  ·  GROUND · III

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