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You're allowed to miss the people still in that life — and to love them from the distance that keeps you safe. Both at once.
The back of The ones still out there — with the code that opens this room
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REMEMBER · V

Lesson 31 of LII · the REMEMBER course
The idea behind this card — The ones still out there

You're allowed to miss the people still in that life — and to love them from the distance that keeps you safe. Both at once.

REMEMBER — The honest archive — the years, the people, the person underneath

…people sat with this card this month
…

The practice

name the one you miss most. Write a single line of what you wish them — don't send it yet, maybe not ever. For now, the distance is the love, doing its job.

Where this idea comes from

  • Pauline Boss — ambiguous loss

More in this deck

TEND · V  ·  GROUND · V  ·  FEEL · V

This room doesn't expire. Come back for whatever is coming up — tonight, the anniversary, years from now.

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