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TEND · V
Lesson 44 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — People, places, things
You're allowed to reroute past the old corner, skip the party, and mute what glamorizes it. Pacing is not weakness. It's engineering.
TEND — Scaffolding, boundaries, and the people who hold you
…people sat with this card this month
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The practice
make one route change today and call it engineering: the long way past nothing at all, the aisle skipped, the account muted. Note the date. Most settings reverse later, when later is safe.
Where this idea comes from
- Recovery community tradition — people, places, and things
More in this deck
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