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TEND · VI
Lesson 45 of LII · the TEND course
The idea behind this card — Prospective self-care
An invitation: one kind thing for tomorrow's you — the evening planned at noon, the fridge stocked, the hard hour pre-softened.
TEND — Scaffolding, boundaries, and the people who hold you
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The practice
before bed, leave tomorrow-you three gifts: the phone charged, one task named on a note, the loudest hour given its standing appointment. Ninety seconds tonight buys a safer evening.
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